Interesting list of first impression expectations from Men's Health below. Yes, I am a fan of personal hygiene, manners, and firmly believe that chivalry never died. However, it seems a bit premature to assume that one can “figure out” all 10 things below asap. Also, if one is so focused on attempting to “figure out” a list of top 10 details from jump, how does relaxing and just enjoying the moment come into play? Likewise, if you’re human, you’ve probably experienced seeing someone you like for who you wanted them to be, instead of the person they truly were.
First impressions are so hard to read at times. Despite this, there are couples out there who express how they “just knew” that a person was “the one” the first time they saw/met the love of their life. Have you ever been fooled by first impressions? How long did it take for you to discover that the love of your life was truly “the one” for you?
First impressions are so hard to read at times. Despite this, there are couples out there who express how they “just knew” that a person was “the one” the first time they saw/met the love of their life. Have you ever been fooled by first impressions? How long did it take for you to discover that the love of your life was truly “the one” for you?
1. Did he dress well for the date? "She's watching to see if you put some energy into your dress and grooming," says Aline Zoldbrod, Ph.D., a sex therapist in Boston. "If you don't take the trouble to dress well for her now, she sees it as disrespectful."
2. Does he have a sense of humor? If you're a total loser, it pays for her to ascertain that on the first date, says Zoldbrod.
3. Is he like my ex? Yes, we always pay for the last guy's sins. What women want is often based on their past negative or positive experiences. So when she talks about past boyfriends, heed well.
4. Is he bitter about past relationships? She needs full use of your closets. There's no room for baggage.
5. Can he talk about himself and listen to me? She'll carry 80 percent of the conversation load. Just make sure your 20 percent is about something.
6. Is he generous? Women somehow see a correlation between leaving a 10 percent tip and having a propensity to drown kittens.
7. Does he make me feel understood and appreciated? If you can't succinctly state her values, her politics, and her ambitions, you're probably failing here. Ask more questions. Listen to the answers this time.
8. Is he open to a relationship but not needy? Ace the other nine criteria here, and your odds of appearing needy will edge toward nil.
9. Does he keep promises? If you're not reliable, you're not viable, especially not for the ultimate goal of all this.
10. Does he have the potential to be a good father?For long-term potential, she considers whether you have the values she wants in a man. How you interact with your own family can be a strong indicator here. If she can't see tykes on your knee, she's wasting her time.
*Photo by Ray Bilcliff
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